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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 9:26 am

Certain is 100%, but 98% is highly unlikely.
As for me pretending to be a girl online, that has nothing to do with it.
You say that I don't care what other people think? I don't want to hear that from you xz because you're the one who doesn't care.
Infatuation, guess I was wrong on that part. But some relationships must have a certain degree of infatuation to start.

I don't know much about you xz, but it doesn't sound like you had a successful relationship.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 10:02 am

Agreeing with xz to an extent.

no confidence = no nookie meaningful relationship that totally isn't based on sex and driven by hormones
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 10:49 am

I stopped listening to LXE when he compared love to garapon
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 3:07 pm

I feel like xz is taking away his confidence, and I'm the one trying to give it. I give up, no use trying to convince xz because just won't listen.
@Nilla wrote:
I stopped listening to LXE when he compared love to garapon
Forget what I just said, all of it.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 3:12 pm

There's a difference between bravery and stupidity
It's clear which you are
What you're doing is the same as playing a game you know you'll lose
Don't confess right away
Increase your chances
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 3:29 pm

Only a real man would pull out when he knows he can't do it any longer Cool

I still don't think xz is a good source of motivation. But then again he's a good source of experience.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 3:41 pm

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Only a real man would pull out when he knows he can't do it any longer Cool

I still don't think xz is a good source of motivation. But then again he's a good source of experience.
And a real lady wouldn't even be able to start
If I wanted to be a good source of motivation I'd become a personal motivator
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 4:48 pm

Haha, I guess, xz is just plain xz. Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 5:41 pm

@xzpwnz wrote:
If I wanted to be a good source of motivation I'd become a personal motivator
u ken doug it

LXE wrote:
Only a real man would pull out when he knows he can't do it any longer Cool
hauehaueheuah
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:37 pm

To OP - LXE is only talking like this cause he is too overconfident from having a gf already.

OP should at least find out what the girl's favorite color is before confessing.
And I don't mean ask her friends or fb stalking.
But actually have a chance to really talk to her and ask about her life and stuff.
If you can go ask "what's your favorite color?" and she actually gives an adequate reply like "blue" or "yellow" then that means you are on the road to actually becoming friends.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 9:34 pm

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To OP - LXE is only talking like this cause he is too overconfident from having a gf already.
Being underconfident isn't going to cut it you know...
I'm not overly confident, I had my share of doubts as well.
And if you call this over confident, then a worry wart's life would seem heroic to you then.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 9:46 pm

@xzpwnz wrote:
There's a difference between bravery and stupidity
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Wed Sep 14, 2011 10:03 pm

LXE wrote:
@BNOISE wrote:
To OP - LXE is only talking like this cause he is too overconfident from having a gf already.
Being underconfident isn't going to cut it you know...
I'm not overly confident, I had my share of doubts as well.
And if you call this over confident, then a worry wart's life would seem heroic to you then.
Rolling Eyes we are highschoolers not adults that can straight up confess to people and then walk away like nothing happened
plus rejection is harsh in highschool
especially when the girl is super popular
rumors will go around flying like crazy from then on and the guy would be treated as a loser for getting rejected
course if he does sports or has a talent then that's a totally different story
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Thu Sep 15, 2011 12:07 am

Didn't read the OP clearly, just skimmed through it. My bad. Neutral
So the OP is in highschool? That's a way different story then, in that case I agree with xz.

Even me and my girlfriend aren't really all that serious though, we're just good friends and that's just about it.

This guy doesn't need a love consultant, he just needs to learn how to talk to a girl.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Thu Sep 15, 2011 4:34 am

She was laughing with her buddies when I saw her today-and when they left - I asked her whether if she would wanna' cos' with me on the next event - and she said "why not?".

I was like "Holy crap really? I didn't asked her out or anything - but I guess this was the next-best thing. Though I was acting abit dumb again infront of her when she said it. Embarassed

Need to brush more on my social-skills orz
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Thu Sep 15, 2011 3:17 pm

@AzusaNyann wrote:
She was laughing with her buddies when I saw her today-and when they left - I asked her whether if she would wanna' cos' with me on the next event - and she said "why not?".

I was like "Holy crap really? I didn't asked her out or anything - but I guess this was the next-best thing. Though I was acting abit dumb again infront of her when she said it. Embarassed

Need to brush more on my social-skills orz
That's the beginning of the first step to a new life.

Probably shouldn't have said, "Holy crap really?" though.

Should've been like "Cool. Any thoughts on what you want to dress up as?"
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Thu Sep 15, 2011 3:22 pm

@BNOISE wrote:
@AzusaNyann wrote:
She was laughing with her buddies when I saw her today-and when they left - I asked her whether if she would wanna' cos' with me on the next event - and she said "why not?".

I was like "Holy crap really? I didn't asked her out or anything - but I guess this was the next-best thing. Though I was acting abit dumb again infront of her when she said it. Embarassed

Need to brush more on my social-skills orz
That's the beginning of the first step to a new life.

Probably shouldn't have said, "Holy crap really?" though.

Should've been like "Cool. Any thoughts on what you want to dress up as?"
What he said.
Errr,try to keep your cool sometimes :V.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Thu Sep 15, 2011 5:46 pm

Keep your cool, and watch what you say. I once had this girl who tried to get too close to me for my liking. So, I tried to calmly and politely tell her to give me some space. I just wanted to be friends and she ended up being cold towards me.

So think twice before you say anything, and don't treat her differently, be normal. Talk about the things she likes, avoid talking about yourself too much. Look into her eyes while you're talking, no one likes a nervous guy with no guts.

Always remember this, girls like confident guys.

This is how you talk to a girl, but this isn't a guide to find love. Love is pretty difficult to tell apart from lust, and infatuation as teenagers. Even I find trouble telling them apart sometimes. So don't try to further your relationship yet, go too fast and you're gonna end up with a break up.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Thu Sep 15, 2011 9:43 pm

LXE wrote:
Keep your cool, and watch what you say. I once had this girl who tried to get too close to me for my liking. So, I tried to calmly and politely tell her to give me some space. I just wanted to be friends and she ended up being cold towards me.

So think twice before you say anything, and don't treat her differently, be normal. Talk about the things she likes, avoid talking about yourself too much. Look into her eyes while you're talking, no one likes a nervous guy with no guts.

Always remember this, girls like confident guys.

This is how you talk to a girl, but this isn't a guide to find love. Love is pretty difficult to tell apart from lust, and infatuation as teenagers. Even I find trouble telling them apart sometimes. So don't try to further your relationship yet, go too fast and you're gonna end up with a break up.

but don't be over confident that she may see you as a jerk. Also, keep your chill while talking to her. Remember, firs step is being friends. So try to act as if she's a normal friend as to avoid awkwardness. Try to show feminine side more, i know some girl cosplayers go for feminine and nice guys.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Thu Sep 15, 2011 10:20 pm

Don't assume that a girl likes you, it make you infatuated with her.
Infatuations are a bitch to deal with, and get over. Trust me, I've tried and I don't like being there.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Fri Sep 16, 2011 4:25 am

Alright - Just gotta keep my cool - That ain't hard I guess xD Guess I gotta go prepare a GE costume. Thanks alot for your tips guys - Love you <3
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Fri Sep 16, 2011 4:54 am

You're just 15 years old, make sure you don't get ahead of yourself.
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Fri Sep 16, 2011 5:20 am

LXE!! he loves us Embarassed
OP is still young, there are lots of other cute girls there.. *looks at yokuyoku*
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PostSubject: Re: I need a love-consultant :<   Fri Sep 16, 2011 5:29 am

@Fainche wrote:
LXE!! he loves us Embarassed
OP is still young, there are lots of other cute girls there.. *looks at yokuyoku*
If you were a girl, I'd hug you right here right now. Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed
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