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PostSubject: Relationships   Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:35 pm

so whats your opinions on long distance relationships

theres this girl that i like, but she lives in Japan while im in Australia, do you think i should take a shot at it?
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:47 pm

Well I can't tell you what to do because it's going to be your decision in the end. For me long distance relationships never worked out but who knows, they could work out for you. Just be careful not to get hurt. (Because in the end, if it doesn't work out, someone always gets hurt.)
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:50 pm

WHAT ARE YOU DOING? BOOK A FLIGHT TO JAPAN RIGHT NOW!
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Fri Jan 07, 2011 2:57 pm

How about tell her your feelings for now and ask for her at the same time? After the approvement... You'll know what to do.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Fri Jan 07, 2011 4:36 pm

how did you met her? internet?

well.......idk but love someone through internet kinda risky.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Fri Jan 07, 2011 4:38 pm

i don't know what she looks like, but I've heard her voice a lot, its not about looks anyway
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Fri Jan 07, 2011 5:56 pm

@IronDicks wrote:
so whats your opinions on long distance relationships

theres this girl that i like, but she lives in Japan while im in Australia, do you think i should take a shot at it?

For me, LDR's are hard to maintain and manage. If ever you're pushing through with this, be prepared to get hurt.

Most people say that there's a 99.9% chance it won't work.

But if you really like her, maybe she's worth the .1%. Smile

Good luck with whatever decision you make. Smile
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Fri Jan 07, 2011 7:24 pm

@IronDicks wrote:
i don't know what she looks like, but I've heard her voice a lot, its not about looks anyway

well go meet her, I know Japanese people value appearence. =P

she won't look that bad.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 1:01 am

Guess what... I've ever also feels the same to one Chinese girl when in internet. ^w^
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 1:09 am

I've tried long distance relationships, and I gotta say, you should make sure you two are close enough, last girlfriend I had turned out to be not the kind of girl I liked |D So unless you've met this person a few times, I say go for it, if you haven't seen her, wait longer, you never know if she'll be the right one for ya.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 2:53 am

@DanmakuKnight wrote:
I've tried long distance relationships, and I gotta say, you should make sure you two are close enough, last girlfriend I had turned out to be not the kind of girl I liked |D So unless you've met this person a few times, I say go for it, if you haven't seen her, wait longer, you never know if she'll be the right one for ya.

Well, i guess you can hear this advice. ^w^
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 4:33 am

Trust me on this.
Online Relationship don't work because you will always end up hating each other.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 5:20 am

Most of what needed to be said has already been said.


It's not something you should rush, because the likely chance is it will not work out.


I know one girl who did succeed, so far. Her relatives knew of a guy and introduced him to her online, they talked, got to know one another, and eventually they started dating. She'd be nutty about him, because she'd have limited time, maybe a few weeks to a day to be with him, then they'd part and go back to school/life.

They are still together, I think it's been a good 2-3 years.

The difference with them is that they could meet one another, there was a pre-existing link in the family to both of them, and they only had a short distance to travel (a few states).


One of you would need to hop on a plane or boat to see the other one.

The internet works well for chance encounters, like if you run onto a girl a few times during business trips, you could potentially hook up and try to see how long it may last.



Talk to her more, get to know each other more, before you actually consider meeting up. You should really 1-on-1 webcam to get to see one another, so each can see how the other moves/sits, acts, speaks (mouth movements) and that may greatly help to see if there is possibility for mutual agreement to chance a long distance relationship.

After you see her, and she sees you, if you spot interest, you really should try to meet up, or see her at least once in the beginning, and plan to possibly meet up every month or two, or quarterly throughout the year with constant talking.

NOTHING is likely to survive on internet conversation alone. Even letters, which would score you extra points most likely, would eventually likely fail you after so much time of not making your presence felt.

Although, foreign girls, and anyone not Americanized as people tend to call it, will possibly give more leniency about seeing you so much, as long as it is work that keeps you busy and away, not simply that you are a loser with no money to ever come see her and a waste of her time to try to wait for you (something a lot of people need to realize is that your position in life greatly effects your chances, if you don't seem stable as a support you shouldn't consider serious relationships at all).

Without the hook, there is no catch.


BTW, a manga that sums up a lot of relationship issues into it: http://www.mangafox.com/manga/kimi_no_iru_machi/
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 6:38 am

mmmm, I know two people that are in an internet relationship, and hopefully it works out XD One's in the US, and one's in England, but they get along really well, so it's nice to see it happen.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 7:05 am

I'm a Korean-Kiwi, and this video speaks for itself.
Its because I noticed youre an aussie.





As for the topic, those relationships tend to be real unhealthy. I've been through those.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 9:59 am

Dude!


Get pictures

See if she has friends

Get their pictures

Give to me

We'll go together!
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 10:07 am

I plan to leave where i live now and move to japan, its been a long time dream of mine, this year im starting a japanese course at university which i believe goes for 3 years, but i'll ask them about continuing it in japan if possible
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 10:11 am

@IronDicks wrote:
I plan to leave where i live now and move to japan, its been a long time dream of mine, this year im starting a japanese course at university which i believe goes for 3 years, but i'll ask them about continuing it in japan if possible

I'm gonna finish all the required jap in high school...
Then I'm gonna go back to korea for first years of uni
And move to japan.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 11:25 am

I also hope I can go on to Manga courses to japan.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sat Jan 08, 2011 11:58 am

go for it, im portuguese and im in Brasil because i met a girl in internet, and now im happy whit her. If you really like her appearance its not the most important thing. I wish you good luck ;D
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sun Jan 09, 2011 5:07 am

@Wolf Hikari wrote:
I also hope I can go on to Manga courses to japan.

> Go to japan
> to study manga

...................................................................


I'm sorry but...

no.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sun Jan 09, 2011 5:23 am

Can't wait to move to Japan where I will instantly fit in and be loved because I watch/enjoy their Animes. People here in America just can't accept that fact that my taste is vastly superior to theirs. Fuck yeah Japan!!
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sun Jan 09, 2011 9:49 am

@DanmakuKnight wrote:
> Go to japan
> to study manga

...................................................................


I'm sorry but...

no.

U misunderstand my thought, so why is no?
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sun Jan 09, 2011 9:57 am

@Wolf Hikari wrote:
@DanmakuKnight wrote:
> Go to japan
> to study manga

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I'm sorry but...

no.

U misunderstand my thought, so why is no?


Because.

You're not supposed to study manga.
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PostSubject: Re: Relationships   Sun Jan 09, 2011 9:58 am

sunjae429 wrote:
@Wolf Hikari wrote:
@DanmakuKnight wrote:
> Go to japan
> to study manga

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I'm sorry but...

no.

U misunderstand my thought, so why is no?


Because.

You're not supposed to study manga.

i think he means to study to be a manga artist, its a legit course
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